Baldur's Gate 3: Full Romance Walkthrough

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Baldur's Gate 3 offers a diverse array of romance options, enhancing the game's immersive experience. Whether you're looking for a deep, long-lasting relationship or a fleeting encounter, the game caters to a variety of romantic preferences. This guide will walk you through each romance option, providing essential steps to foster these relationships and avoid missing out on any potential connections.

All Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

Romance in BG3 Explained:

In Baldur's Gate 3, romance is available to all players regardless of their character's gender. The game offers both short-term and long-term romantic engagements, each tailored to the unique personalities and storylines of the characters involved. Some companions are open to one-night stands, while others require a more prolonged courtship. It's crucial to manage your romantic pursuits carefully, as certain actions can lock you out of multiple romance paths. Most companions can be romanced, but you won't be able to experience every romance in a single playthrough due to the exclusive nature of some relationships.

All Romance Options:

The following companion characters can be romanced in Baldur's Gate 3:

Shadowheart
Gale
Astarion
Karlach
Wyll
Lae'zel
Halsin
Minthara

The following non-companion characters are available for short-term romance:

Mizora
Guardian/Emperor
Drow Twins
Haarlep
Naoise Nallinto

How to Romance Shadowheart in Baldur's Gate 3

Shadowheart is often the first companion you encounter, making her a prominent romance option. Her journey is deeply intertwined with the game's plot, adding a rich layer to her romance.

How to Romance Shadowheart:

Keep Shadowheart in your party to build rapport and increase her approval.
Gain her approval by showing kindness, avoiding violence, and respecting her privacy. Support her against Lae'zel for a significant early boost.
In Act I, look for the "...missed a chance to connect" dialogue. Alternatively, engage with her during the camp party after rescuing Halsin. When she offers to share a bottle, accept and choose to spend the evening with her. Follow the romantic dialogue options during your nighttime walk to end with a kiss. Decide afterward if you want a long-term relationship.
In Act II, continue your romance regardless of whether you side with Selune or Shar. Support her new look if you choose Selune, or engage in nighttime events if you choose Shar.
In Act III, complete her quest. A final nighttime event involving a swim will lead to a special scene if you choose the affectionate dialogue options.

Shadowheart Romance Special Notes:

Shadowheart may end the relationship if you pursue other romances, though the rules can be unclear. It's safest to remain exclusive, especially in Honor Mode.

How to Romance Gale in Baldur's Gate 3

Gale, the wizard from Waterdeep, is both a key plot character and a potential romantic partner.

How to Romance Gale:

Rescue Gale from the portal northeast of the crash site.
Fulfill his requests to consume magical items, which occur up to three times in Act I.
Attend his magic lesson in Act I and choose the romantic dialogue options. Avoid being mean to keep future options open.
Before transitioning to Act II, support Gale during his cutscene with Elminster.
In Act III, to unlock the final romance scene, keep Gale alive and read "The Annals of Karsus" in Sorcerous Sundries. Speak with Gale before resting, choosing "Close your eyes," "Kiss Him," and "You're already everything I need you to be."

Gale Romance Special Notes:

Gale does not tolerate open relationships and will be unhappy if you romance others.

How to Romance Astarion in Baldur's Gate 3

Astarion's charm and wit make him a popular choice for romance in Baldur's Gate 3.

How to Romance Astarion:

Boost his approval by choosing self-serving options and adding him to your party early. He appreciates sarcasm and generally dislikes helping others.
Allow Astarion to drink your blood to improve your relationship.
At the party, engage with Astarion and choose the dialogue options that align with his interests. Let him bite you during the first major romance scene.
After the first scene, show interest in his scars and ask about the Infernal writing.
In Act II, take Raphael's deal to learn more about his scars. During Astarion's nighttime visit, choose the romantic dialogue options.
In Act III, complete his quest. Support him regardless of whether you allow the ritual, leading to a special scene. If you permit the ritual, you can become a vampire.

Astarion Romance Special Notes:

Astarion is the most open-minded long-term partner and won't get truly angry if you have other romantic encounters.

How to Romance Karlach in Baldur's Gate 3

Karlach's romance is rewarding but challenging, requiring careful attention to her unique situation.

How to Romance Karlach:

Support Karlach against the fake Paladins of Tyr and add her to your party early. She values kindness, understanding, and violence in defense of the needy.
Collect Infernal Iron quickly and have Dammon, the blacksmith at the Emerald Grove, help with her heart. Express disappointment that you can't touch her yet, and affirm your interest.
At the party, express your feelings to Karlach. Later, suggest throwing water on her to cool her off temporarily and attempt a kiss. She'll be understanding if you see others until her heart is fixed.
In Act II, continue upgrading her with Dammon at the Last Light Inn using Infernal Iron.
In Act III, take Karlach on a date.

Karlach Romance Special Notes:

Karlach is highly sensitive about infidelity and will get angry if you sleep with others. Apologize sincerely if this happens to possibly regain her trust.
After fixing her heart, you can enter a long-term relationship, unlocking unique dialogue.

How to Romance Wyll in Baldur's Gate 3

Wyll's romance enhances his storyline, offering a deeper look into his character.

How to Romance Wyll:

Build approval by acting heroically, helping others, and supporting him in his quests. Show empathy for his struggles with Mizora and his father.
Rescue Halsin and the Tieflings at the Emerald Grove. If your approval is high, Wyll will be available to spend the night with during the party.
In Act II, after a Long Rest, find Wyll dancing and choose the romantic dialogue options.
In Act III, help Wyll save his father and complete his task with the dragon Ansur to unlock the final romantic encounter.

How to Romance Lae'zel in Baldur's Gate 3

Lae'zel's romance can range from a one-night stand to a more committed relationship.

How to Romance Lae'zel:

Increase her approval by taking decisive action and preferring combat over persuasion or deception. She appreciates intimidation.
Once her approval is high, mention her changed demeanor at camp, which can lead to a one-night stand.
In Act II, accept her duel challenge. Regardless of the outcome, it will deepen your bond.
In Act III, your relationship's outcome depends on whether she sides with Vlaakith or Orpheus. Siding with Orpheus leads to a potential ending as a couple.

Lae'zel Romance Special Notes:

Lae'zel does not tolerate infidelity and will end the relationship permanently if you cheat after the duel.

How to Romance Halsin in Baldur's Gate 3

Halsin's romance is popular among fans, offering a unique connection with nature.

How to Romance Halsin:

Complete all of Halsin's quests before the end of Act II to avoid being locked out of romance options. Ensure you lift the Shadow Curse.
Rescue Halsin from the Goblin Camp to make him available as a companion in Act II.
Keep Halsin in your party after he joins, and gain his approval through kindness, reverence for nature, and fairness.
Regularly check and exhaust all of Halsin's dialogue options, particularly those related to former lovers.
Once his approval is high, he will visit you at night. Ensure you have approval from other partners if necessary; Shadowheart and Astarion are more understanding than Karlach and Gale.

How to Romance Minthara in Baldur's Gate 3

Minthara's romance is typically aligned with evil playthroughs, offering a unique narrative shift.

How to Romance Minthara:

Instead of attacking the Goblin Camp, return to Minthara without engaging in combat. Side with her to betray your party and the Emerald Grove.
After defeating the grove, express honor in fighting beside her, embrace the change, and open your mind. She will visit your camp.
At the goblin party, affirm that you are hers and go to bed. Pass the persuasion check to avoid her attacking you at the end of the encounter.

Minthara Romance Special Notes:

Choosing this path will drastically alter your game experience, alienating other party members due to the destruction of the Emerald Grove.

All One-Off Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

How to Romance Mizora:

Ensure Wyll is in your party and do not side with Minthara.
Rescue Mizora from the Mind Flayer Colony below Moonrise Towers in Act II.
In Act III, find Mizora in the audience chamber at Wyrm's Rock Fortress before Gortash's coronation. Discuss Duke Ravengard, and she will visit your camp.
Rest until you see an exclamation mark over her head. When she suggests something "beyond these planes," respond with interest and a smile. She will come to you at night for a one-off romance.

How to Romance the Guardian:

Choose to protect the Guardian/Emperor between Act II and Act III.
Evolve into Half-Ilithid to boost approval (optional but helpful).
Visit the Emperor's old hideout to learn about his past lover.
During the Emperor's visit after discovering his past, choose to hold their hand.
When the Emperor visits again, acknowledge their flirtation and respond positively to trigger the romance scene.

How to Romance the Drow Twins:

Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing during Act III.
Speak to Mamzell Amira near the bar. Either complete a quest for her or pay directly to access the twins.
Follow the directions to their chambers to initiate the scene. Avoid inviting Gale or Karlach if you're in a relationship with them.

How to Romance Haarlep in the House of Hope:

Reach the House of Hope, Raphael's home.
Cross the Mystic Force Curtain to enter the Boudoir and meet Haarlep, an Incubus. Accept their romantic offer, but be aware of potential consequences if you're in a relationship, especially with Karlach.

How to Romance Naoise Nallinto:

Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing.
Find the locked door at the top of the stairs, marked by a green lantern and ivy. Unlock it with a roll of 10 or get the key from Mamzell.
Enter the chamber to find Naoise and Jara. After defeating the Mindflayer that Jara becomes, engage with Naoise to initiate a brief romantic scene, granting the Rapture buff until your next long rest.